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Timestamp Reality Check

When the past feels like it's happening now — this tool helps you separate THEN from NOW and anchor safely in the present.

5 min🔒 Private🕰️ Then vs Now
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What this is

During a flashback, your mind and body collapse time — the past feels like it's happening right now. This tool uses temporal grounding (Rothschild 2000) and dual awareness (Schauer 2011) to help you orient back to the present. You'll name what belongs to THEN, gather evidence of NOW, and anchor in the timestamp: "That was then. This is now. You are safe."

Who it helps

    Benefits

    🕰️
    Temporal Separation
    Distinguish past memory from present reality
    🌟
    Present Anchoring
    Gather evidence you are safe right now
    🧠
    Dual Awareness
    Hold both: it happened AND it's over
    💛
    Safety Restoration
    Your nervous system learns the danger has passed

    ⚠ Precautions

    • This is a grounding tool, not trauma therapy or EMDR.
    • If the flashback is severe or you feel unsafe, call a crisis line first.
    • Go only as deep as feels manageable — you can stop anytime.
    • If you ever feel unsafe, pause and reach a helpline.

    Disclaimer

    This is a self-help grounding exercise based on recognised trauma-stabilisation techniques. It does not diagnose, treat, or replace professional trauma therapy or emergency services. Everything stays only on your device.

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    This guided session is available with a Lifeved membership. Private, research-backed, works on all devices.

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