Mahabharata Anushasana Parva – अन्यैर गुणैर उपेतं तु शुल्कं याचन्ति बान्धवाः

Shloka (श्लोक)

अन्यैर गुणैर उपेतं तु शुल्कं याचन्ति बान्धवाः
अलंकृत्वा वहस्वेति यॊ दद्याद अनुकूलतः

⚡ Quick Meaning

If one is endowed with admirable qualities, relatives demand a fee, expecting an advantageous match.

Translations

English Translation

This shloka highlights the social practices where the qualities of individuals can often lead family members to seek benefits in arranged marriages, showcasing the interplay between personal merits and societal expectations in marital negotiations.

हिंदी अनुवाद

यह श्लोक उन सामाजिक प्रथाओं को उजागर करता है जहां व्यक्तियों के गुण अक्सर परिवार के सदस्यों को व्यवस्थित विवाह में लाभ मांगने के लिए प्रेरित करते हैं, जो विवाह की वार्ता में व्यक्तिगत गुणों और सामाजिक अपेक्षाओं के बीच के बातचीत को दर्शाता है।

Commentary

Context

Found in the Anushasana Parva, this shloka addresses the complexities of familial expectations during marriage arrangements, particularly regarding the assessment of personal attributes.

Meaning

The reference to qualities suggests a deeper cultural nuance where personal characteristics play a pivotal role in marital negotiations, impacting decisions on prospective alliances.

Application

This verse encourages individuals to evaluate the qualities in themselves and others when entering any binding agreements, ensuring that character holds precedence over material considerations.